Chinese-focused singles event, but everyone's welcome. Hosted in Mandarin & English in a Central London private members' club.

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This is not a typical speed dating night.

Instead of simply rotating through quick conversations, this event brings a more thoughtful approach to meeting new people offline.

Hosted by Triple Q Media and Psywell Counselling, with venue sponsorship from The Harley Lounge, this evening is designed for singles who want something more comfortable, more intentional and less awkward than the usual dating experience.

The event includes psychologist-informed interactive activities, relationship prompts, one-to-one rotating conversations and private post-event mutual matching.

The aim is not just to meet more people.

The aim is to help people feel more seen.

What Makes This Different

Most speed dating events focus on speed.

This event focuses on connection, comfort and emotional safety.

You will be guided through light, relationship-based activities designed to help conversations feel more natural from the beginning.

These may include:

Relationship trait cards

To help you reflect on what you value in close relationships.

Movement-based icebreakers

To explore communication style, weekend energy and personal preferences in a relaxed and visual way.

Conversation prompts

To move beyond the usual “What do you do?” and “Where do you live?” questions.

One-to-one rotating conversations

To give you the chance to meet different people in a structured but relaxed format.

Private match cards

To record your interest privately, without public pressure or awkward in-person rejection.

The Venue

This event will take place at The Harley Lounge, a private members lounge located in the heart of Cavendish Square.

Designed as a calm and elegant retreat from the noise of the city, The Harley Lounge offers a refined setting for conversation, connection and meaningful in-person experiences.

With warm interiors, a private atmosphere and a strong connection to the Harley Street medical and wellness community, the venue reflects the spirit of this event: thoughtful, discreet and human.

How Matching Works

You will not be asked to make any public decisions during the event.

You will not need to reject anyone face to face.

Contact details will only be exchanged after the event if both people select Yes to each other on their match cards.

If the interest is one-sided, no contact details will be shared.

This creates a more respectful and emotionally safe dating environment for everyone.

What’s Included

Event entry

One welcome drink

Guided icebreaker activity

Relationship-based conversation prompts

Structured one-to-one speed dating

Match card

Private post-event mutual matching service

Event Details

Date: 28 Aug

Registration: 18:00–18:25

Event starts: 18:30

Event ends: 21:00

Venue: The Harley Lounge

Address: 15 Cavendish Square, London W1G 0AN

Organised by: Triple Q Media and Psywell Counselling

Venue Sponsor: The Harley Lounge

Capacity: Limited to 40 participants. The event is designed to maintain a balanced number of male and female participants.

Ticket Types

Early Bird Ticket: £39 (Sold out!)

Limited to the first 6 tickets only, with 3 female tickets and 3 male tickets available, or until Sunday 28 June at 11:59pm, whichever comes first.

Standard Ticket: £45

Last-minute Ticket: £49

Released before the event, subject to availability and gender balance.

Final Release / Door Ticket: £55

Subject to availability, venue capacity and gender balance.

Please note: Your ticket includes a complimentary welcome mocktail on arrival. A full paid bar will also be available throughout the event for additional drinks.

Important Notes

This is a social dating event, not a counselling or therapy session.

Please arrive between 18:00 and 18:25 for registration. The event will start promptly at 18:30.

To protect everyone’s comfort and privacy, participants are encouraged not to exchange personal contact details during the event. Contact details will only be shared after the event when there is a mutual match.

The organisers reserve the right to manage ticket availability in order to maintain a balanced and comfortable group dynamic.

Come with an open mind.

Leave with new conversations, new possibilities and perhaps the beginning of something unexpected.

This event will host in both English and Mandarin.

For more informaiton, please get in touch with customer service on Wechat: TripleQMediaUK or Whatsapp +44 7353 772933

Description supplied by the event organiser.