Exploring the sexual Self with curiosity, compassion, and clarity.

Join Kalvin Ryder, founder and therapist at Sexuality Space, and co-host of the Universal Music podcast What If People Find Out?, for this one day workshop supporting you in exploring, understanding, and integrating the Sexual Self as a vital and natural part of the whole personality.

Everyone has a sexual self. Most of us were never helped to meet it.

This workshop offers a gentle enquiry into meeting and allowing your Sexual Self to have a voice - exploring how shame, secrecy, and social messages shape our relationship with sex, and how the Sexual Self can become split off from identity, love, values, and meaning.

Using a Psychosynthesis framework, the workshop provides a contained and reflective space to meet sex as a human experience with curiosity and compassion, allowing clarity, understanding, and integration to emerge at your own pace.

Who Is The Event For?

Individuals who feel curious about sex - what it means to them, how it has shaped them, and their inner experience of it.

People who sense a gap or tension between sex and other parts of their life, such as identity, love, values, religion, or self-expression.

Therapists, counsellors, trainees, and psychologically minded people interested in deepening their understanding of the Sexual Self.

Those who feel functional and grounded in life, yet sense something around sex or sexuality remains unintegrated or unexplored.

Learning Outcomes

A clearer understanding of the Sexual Self as a subpersonality and as part of your wider inner world.

Insight into how early experiences, secrecy, and social messaging shape your relationship to sex and sexual identity.

A psychosynthesis based understanding of sexual shame, disidentification, and how these processes operate internally.

Practical tools for reflection, self-awareness, and ongoing personal integration.

Greater internal clarity, steadiness, and safety in relation to your experience of sex and sexual identity.

Confidence being understood as a natural outcome of awareness and integration, rather than something to be forced or performed.

What to expect?

Thoughtful teaching grounded in psychosynthesis.

Visual frameworks and music to support understanding.

Contained experiential reflections.

Optional journaling and internal dialogue exercises.

An open Q&A space.

No pressure to share personal material.

The workshop is designed to feel supportive, respectful, and psychologically safe.

Ticket Price

At the Trust we appreciate that each person has their own unique situation, so we invite you to select the price point that feels like it represents a fair contribution for attending this event.

There are three options to choose from when purchasing tickets: £75; £100; £150

If you have any concerns around affordability, please contact Kajal at events@ptrust.org.uk

About the Trainer

Kalvin Ryder is a UK-based therapist, educator, and founder of Sexuality Space, a therapy practice specialising in gender, sexuality and relationship diversity.

Before this, Kalvin spent over two decades working in the music industry, across The X Factor, Sony Music, Capital FM and much more.

Trained in psychosynthesis counselling, Kalvin brings an integrative lens to sexuality, viewing the Sexual Self as a vital part of the whole personality rather than something to be fixed, controlled, or overcome. The focus of their work is on clarity, safety, and compassionate integration.

Alongside clinical practice, Kalvin is the co-host of the Universal Music Group podcast What If People Find Out? (https://whatifpeople.lnk.to/listen), where public figures speak honestly about shame, vulnerability, identity, and the moments that reshaped their lives.

Kalvin is known for creating spaces that are thoughtful, contained, and psychologically safe - where curiosity is encouraged and participants are supported to meet themselves with honesty and care.

More Info:

www.sexualityspace.com (http://www.sexualityspace.com/)

Podcast: https://whatifpeople.lnk.to/listen (https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__whatifpeople.lnk.to_listen&d=DwMFAw&c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&r=OyrMQXYKA9Ena4_FTD7sUs44JQESx3LCD40g8V9xInk&m=w0Srzn3lepfJWO9om59urLp6-xbU8q1GZYzfyR2PFfE_RSTjkPwetgkXIs7O3APe&s=WOyqOPNM9ejrLvCYgVap1nU6pSzza8mbAVp4etiButY&e=)

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