Women buy the tickets. Men are personally vouched for by someone there. A safe and premium singles mixer where you choose who's in the room.

You choose who's in the room for this wine and cheese singles mixer.

Women buy the tickets. Men come as a verified +1 — someone you know, trust, and would genuinely back. Bring that guy. Because every other woman there did exactly the same thing.

Which means every man in that room was personally picked and vouched for by a woman who thinks he's worth knowing. That's a different crowd entirely.

Who to bring A single friend. A colleague. Your brother. Your best mate who's somehow still single. Whoever he is, as long as you know him well, trust him completely, and would put your name to it. That's all we ask.

What to expect A room full of singles: every single one of them vouched for. No strangers who bought a ticket and hoped for the best. No mystery ratios. Just good people, a great venue, and a concept that does the hard work before the doors even open.

It's a wine and cheese singles mixer. But a smarter one.

📍 Cosy Club, Oxford

📅 Saturday 24 October 2026

⏰ 7:00 PM – 10:30 PM

👗 Smart / elevated casual (Dress to impress)

🎟️ From £10 — women purchase, +1 name confirmed at booking (higher if a woman doesn't bring a guy)

The Plan

7:00 PM — Doors open. Drinks, music, good energy.

7:20 PM — Icebreakers. Cheese platter. Low stakes, actually fun.

10:30 PM — The group is invited to an optional night out of dancing once the event ends.

FAQs

Why do women buy the tickets? Because you're choosing who's in the room. That's the whole point.

What's the +1 process? You'll get a short form with your booking confirmation. Submit his name, he goes on the door list. Simple.

Is it a dating event? It's a singles mixer. Some people will meet someone. Everyone will have an opportunity to have a great night. Both are fine outcomes.

Dress code? Smart / elevated casual. You know what that means.

What is included ? A cheese platter is provided for free with a valid ticket. Drinks are not included.

The best rooms don't happen by accident. This one's built that way.

— Date IRL, the singles brand of IRL Oxford | @irloxford | @dateirl_uk

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