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Speed Dating & Singles Events in Southampton

54 upcoming speed dating & singles events

Southampton, a city with a rich maritime heritage, offers a refreshingly down-to-earth approach to finding romance. Here, the speed dating and singles scene moves at a brisk pace, much like the ferries that once sailed from its shores. You'll find a friendly crowd, often a mix of seasoned locals and those drawn to the city's educational institutions and burgeoning industries. Events are frequently held in popular spots like Revolution Southampton, known for its lively atmosphere, and the charming Funky Flamingo. Look out for gatherings at The Winchester Stable and Tonic Rooms too, each providing a comfortable setting to meet new people. It's a straightforward way to connect, with a practical, no-nonsense spirit that reflects the city itself.

As of August 2026, EventsList.co.uk lists 54 upcoming speed dating & singles events in Southampton, Hampshire. Each listing is updated three times daily from verified UK ticketing sources and includes the date, venue, price and a direct booking link.

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20s & 30s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay
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20s & 30s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay

£20.00

40s & 50s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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40s & 50s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

£20.00

Meet IRL Singles Mixer| All bar One Southampton | 30+ at All Bar One Southampton
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Meet IRL Singles Mixer| All bar One Southampton | 30+

📍 All Bar One Southampton

£22.38

30s & 40s Singles Night @ FF Southampton| Love at First Sign at Funky Flamingo
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30s & 40s Singles Night @ FF Southampton| Love at First Sign

📍 Funky Flamingo

£22.38 - £48.38

Speed Dating in Southampton| Ages 40-55 at The Monarch Oxford Street
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Speed Dating in Southampton| Ages 40-55

📍 The Monarch Oxford Street

50+ Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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50+ Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

£20.00

Pizza Lovers Speed Dating in Winchester | Ages 40-55 at The Winchester Stable
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Pizza Lovers Speed Dating in Winchester | Ages 40-55

📍 The Winchester Stable

40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay
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40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay

£22.38 - £48.38

30s & 40s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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30s & 40s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

£20.00

Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton at Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)
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Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton

📍 Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)

40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay Winchester
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40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay Winchester

BH Singles Party at Turtle Bay Southampton|Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay
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BH Singles Party at Turtle Bay Southampton|Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay

£11.55 - £16.96

20s & 30s Single's Mixer Event with Love at First Sign at Funky Flamingo
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20s & 30s Single's Mixer Event with Love at First Sign

📍 Funky Flamingo

Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton at Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)
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Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton

📍 Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)

Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton at Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)
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Unified Dating - Meet Singles in Southampton

📍 Southampton Secret Venue (TBA)

50+ Singles Night @ FF Southampton| Love at First Sign at Funky Flamingo
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50+ Singles Night @ FF Southampton| Love at First Sign

📍 Funky Flamingo

£20.00

20s & 30s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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20s & 30s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

30s & 40s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay Winchester
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30s & 40s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay Winchester

£22.38 - £48.38

20s & 30s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay
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20s & 30s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay

From £20.00

40s & 50s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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40s & 50s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

£20.00

Speed Dating in Southampton| Ages 30-45 at The Monarch Oxford Street
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Speed Dating in Southampton| Ages 30-45

📍 The Monarch Oxford Street

40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign at Turtle Bay
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40s & 50s Singles Night @ Turtle Bay Soton| Love at First Sign

📍 Turtle Bay

£20.00

Pizza Lovers Speed Dating in Winchester | Ages 30-45 at The Winchester Stable
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Pizza Lovers Speed Dating in Winchester | Ages 30-45

📍 The Winchester Stable

30s & 40s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign at The Winchester Stable
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30s & 40s Singles Night @ Stable Winchester| Love at First Sign

📍 The Winchester Stable

£20.00

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Speed Dating & Singles Events in Southampton — Complete Guide

Discover the vibrant speed dating & singles scene in Southampton with EventsList.co.uk's comprehensive event listings. Our platform aggregates speed dating & singles events from across Southampton, providing you with detailed information including venue details, ticket prices, and direct booking links.

Whether you're looking for tonight's speed dating & singles events or planning ahead for the weekend, our real-time listings are updated daily to ensure you never miss out on the best speed dating & singlesexperiences Southampton has to offer.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How many speed dating & singles events are on in Southampton?

There are currently 54 upcoming speed dating & singles events in Southampton. New events are added daily — check back regularly or browse by date to find the best upcoming speed dating & singles in the city.

Are there free speed dating & singles events in Southampton?

Southampton regularly has free speed dating & singles events. Use the free events filter on this page to see what's available without an entry fee.

Where can I find speed dating & singles events in Southampton this weekend?

Browse this weekend's speed dating & singles events in Southampton at /southampton/events/this-weekend, or use the date filters to see what's on today, tonight or later this week.

How do I book tickets for speed dating & singles events in Southampton?

Every speed dating & singles listing on EventsList.co.uk includes a direct booking link to the official ticket seller. Open any event to see full details, pricing and the "Book Tickets" button.

How often are speed dating & singles listings updated on EventsList?

We pull in new speed dating & singles events for Southampton three times a day from official UK ticketing platforms including Ticketmaster, Skiddle and Eventbrite, so you always see the most up-to-date listings.

Speed Dating & Singles Events in Southampton — Your Complete Guide

Speed dating events in Southampton offer a fun, fast-paced and entirely pressure-free way to meet new people. At a typical speed dating night, you spend 3–5 minutes chatting one-to-one with a series of singles before rotating to the next person — at the end of the evening, you mark your matches and the organiser connects you with anyone who matched you back.

Speed dating nights in Southampton are held in bars, restaurants and private event venues across the city, making them feel like a social night out rather than a formal search for romance. Events are usually organised by age group (20s, 30s, 40s and 50s are common brackets) and sometimes by profession or interest, so you're meeting people at a similar life stage.

Whether you're newly single, returning to dating after a long-term relationship, or simply tired of swiping on apps, Southampton speed dating events are a refreshing alternative. Most events attract between 20 and 40 attendees, so you're guaranteed a lively evening with plenty of variety. Many organisers also offer a free drink on arrival and a relaxed mingling period after the formal rounds.

How to make the most of a speed dating night in Southampton: arrive a few minutes early to settle in, prepare a handful of light conversation starters (hobbies, favourite restaurants, recent travel), and remember that not every conversation needs to lead to a match — it's a social event first and a dating one second. Tickets typically cost £15–£30 and can be booked directly through the event listings on this page.